Why don't feminists realize that they should denounce the radicals loudly and publicly or be lumped together?

That's exactly the same thing bigots said back in the 60's about Blacks. "Denounce the bogeyman "Militant" Black and we'll ALLOW you the right to sit anywhere you want to in a bus but not a restaurant." Why would women want to "negotiate" anything with bigots in the first place? I mean, do YOU care what a bigot thinks about you? Same for women.